Sex in Drug Free Living

The preservation of health is a duty. Few seem conscious that there is such a thing as physical morality.

For men:

1. Importance of preserving semen

Western medicine claims that men naturally replenish their semen supply soon after ejaculation and that the male's capacity for producing semen is virtually limitless. This is a highly misleading generalization.

The great Indian Yogi Swami Sivananda says,

"My dear brothers! The vital energy, the Veerya that supports your life, which is the Prana of Pranas, which shines in your sparkling eyes, which beams in your shining cheeks, is a great treasure for you. Remember this point well. Veerya is the quintessence of blood. One drop of semen is manufactured out of forty drops of blood. Mark here how valuable this fluid is!"
Swami Sivanandha

Click here - Swami Sivanandha on Celibacy

He continues, "Semen is found in a subtle state in all the cells of the body. Just as sugar is all-pervading in the sugar-cane, butter in milk, so also, semen is pervading the whole body. Just as the butter milk is thin after the butter is removed, so also, semen is thinned by its wastage. The more the wastage of semen the more is the weakness.

In the Yoga Sasthras it is said:

Maranam Bindu Patanat, Jivanam Bindu Rakshanat.

Meaning: Falling of semen brings death, preservation of semen gives life.

Semen is  the real vitality in men. It is the hidden treasure in man. It imparts Brahma-Tejas to the face and strength to the intellect. "

Modern medical opinion:
Eminent European medical men also support the statement of the Yogis of India.

Dr.Nicole says: “It is a medical and physiological fact that the best blood in the body goes to form the elements of reproduction in both the sexes. In a pure and orderly life, this matter is reabsorbed. It goes back into circulation ready to form the finest brain, nerve and muscular tissues.

This vital fluid of man carried back and diffused through his system makes him manly, strong, brave and heroic. If wasted, it leaves him effeminate, weak and physically debilitated and prone to sexual irritation and disordered function, a wretched nervous system, epilepsy, and various other diseases and death. The suspension of the use of the generative organs is attended with a notable increase of bodily, mental and spiritual vigour.”

If the spermatic secretion in men is continuous, it must either be expelled or be reabsorbed. As a result of the most patient and persevering scientific investigations, it has been found that whenever the seminal secretions are conserved and thereby reabsorbed into the system, it goes towards enriching the blood and strengthening the brain.

Dr.Dio Louis thinks that the conservation of this element is essential to strength of body, vigour of mind and keenness of intellect.

Another writer, Dr.E.P. Miller, says: “All waste of spermatic secretions, whether voluntary or involuntary, is a direct waste of the life force. It is almost universally conceded that the choicest element of the blood enters into the composition of the spermatic secretion. If these conclusions are correct, then it follows that a chaste life is essential to man’s well-being.

The preservation of semen is the secret of good health and longevity, and of all success in the physical, mental, intellectual and spiritual planes.

Osho's quotes:
"After sex a man laments the loss of his energy, for its wastage, because he knows that the more his energy dissipates the closer his death comes.
In some species of animals, males die after one act of intercourse. A particular insect in Africa can go into sexual intercourse only once; its energy dissipates and it dies during the intercourse itself.

It has become known to man long ago that intercourse dissipates his energy, lessens his life-energy and brings death that much nearer. After each experience he regrets his indulgence, but in a short while he feels the same craving again. Certainly there is some other meaning behind this craving which must be understood."



"That is why I say that human beings had their first experience of samadhi, of the no-mind or superconsciousness, in the experience of sex. But that is an experience at a high cost, at a very high cost. Secondly, that experience does not last longer than a moment; after a momentary glimpse we return again to our original position. We fall back to our original position minus a considerable amount of power and energy."

"One should go in sex, but there should be no ejaculation. If ejaculation happens, then it is ordinary sex; then it is not Tantra. If you make love and no ejaculation happens, for hours you are together with the woman and no ejaculation happens, this is Tantra. This is an attainment."

Frequent ejaculation causes a chronic drain of the vital fluids that the brain and spine require to function properly.

Furthermore, recent medical evidence indicates that with each and every ejaculation men suffer a significant loss of zinc, a rare but vital trace element. Frequent ejaculation thus results in a chronic, critical deficiency of zinc, symptoms of which include loss of memory, mental confusion, paranoia and hypersensitivity to sunlight.

The most practical advice of all on the subject of ejaculation control comes from the centenarian Chinese physician Sun Ssu-mo (Taoist doctor, 590-692), the Tang Dynasty adept who outlived three emperors by practicing what he preached. His general yardstick was twice a month, or 24 times per year. His own personal regimen, however, was only one emission per 100 copulation's. Dr. Sun lived to the age of 101.

Dr. Sun Ssu-mo

Dr. Sun Ssu-mo

As Sun Ssu-mo sums up so well, "If a man squanders his semen, he will die soon. For a man, this is the most important point to remember about sex."

After all semen's ingredient sperm, is capable of creating one more life in this world. It has such a huge potential and possibility. It's a why to waste it unnecessarily by overindulgence? Isn't it wise to conserve and utilize the excess sexual energy to realize the higher planes of existence?

2. Multiple orgasms

Wise men say,"Don't waste semen! Don't ejaculate! If you waste you will suffer! etc.,".

Then one may think,

  • How on earth can one miss sex and orgasm which are very much pleasurable and relieving?
  • Should one shun sex completely?
  • Or can one ever have an orgasm without ejaculating? Is that thing possible at all?

"yes, it's possible to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating", says Mantak Chia a Taoist Master.

Grand Master Mantak Chia

Grand Master Mantak Chia

He is best known for his teaching Taoist practices under the names of Healing Tao, Tao Yoga, Universal Healing Tao System and Qigong.

He co-authored a highly informative book 'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' which is about how a man can experience multiple orgasms and dramatically enhance his sexual relationship. 

Get 'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' here.

* This may not be available in all the countries or may be out of print.

In this book he teaches few powerful exercises which require patience and sincere practice.

In general a woman is capable of experiencing multiple orgasms in a single session of love making. But a man requires a definite refractory period between two ejaculatory orgasms. In the refractory period he loses erection.

But researches proved that multiple orgasms are not the domain of woman alone! Even a man can experience them through right practice.

The key to experiencing male multiple orgasms is ejaculation control. Most men have been ejaculating when they have an orgasm for most of their life. We think that this is a package deal.

But orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct physical processes. With practice one can learn to gain control over ejaculation, so one can choose if and when to ejaculate.

Ejaculation, not orgasm, is what requires the refractory period before another erection. Hence if one can prevent ejaculation, he can enjoy orgasmic peaks and go right back into stimulation without pause. This means that one can stay erect longer, have longer sessions of lovemaking with the partner and ultimately explore the possibility of male multiple orgasms.  

Here are a few highlights from this book:

The Sexual Secrets
In this book you will learn to

* Have multiple orgasms without losing your erection
* Experience longer, more intense whole-body orgasms
* Use your sexual energy to improve your overall health
* Increase your sexual energy and vitality

This is not just another sex book....
These are powerful practices. The techniques given in this book
can profoundly improve your health as well as your sexuality. However,
we do not give any diagnoses or suggestions for medication. People who have high blood pressure, heart disease, or a generally
weak condition should proceed slowly in the practice...

Over three thousand years ago, the Chinese recognized that men can achieve multiple orgasms by delaying and even withholding ejaculation. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct physical processes, though they have long been equated in the West. Although clearly less precise than today’s sex researchers, the ancient Chinese recorded their findings in detail for future generations of sexual and spiritual seekers.

In the West, it was not until the 1940s that pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey reported similar discoveries. Yet even several decades later, after his claims have been proved repeatedly in the laboratory, most men remain unaware of their multiorgasmic potential. Without this knowledge and without a clear technique, men are unable to feel the difference between the crescendo of orgasm and the crash of ejaculation.

Male sexuality in the West remains incorrectly focused on the inevitably disappointing goal of ejaculation (“getting off”) instead of the orgasmic process of lovemaking. The Multi-Orgasmic Man shows men how to separate orgasm and ejaculation in their own bodies, allowing them to transform the momentary release of ejaculation into countless peaks of whole body orgasms.

In the words of one multi-orgasmic man, “In the normal, everyday sort of ejaculation my pleasure is quickly over with. Not so in multiple orgasms. The pleasure generated here stays with me throughout the day. There seems to be no final peak to this pleasure, either. This practice offers the added bonus of affording extra energy so I am just never tired. Now I can have as much sex as I want and I can control it rather than
have it control me. What more can a man ask for?”... 

Here is another classic work on human sexuality, 'The Multi-Orgasmic Couple' co-written by Mantak Chia.

In India, get this book here.

In USA, get this book here.

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